I’m at a Different Point in Life Than My Peers
I’m at a very different stage of life than most people my age—and I’m fully aware of it.
By now, I already understand what marriage is, how it functions, and what it requires. I’ve lived it. I’ve also experienced family life in its entirety—yes, even the version people call picture-perfect.
I don’t speak from theory or curiosity. Instead, I speak from experience.
My Family Is Complete
I have my perfect pair of children, and I feel complete because of them. For that reason, I don’t envision another baby in my future. I made that decision consciously and permanently through a bilateral salpingectomy, choosing clarity over uncertainty.
That choice brought me peace.
Rather than feeling loss, I feel relief. Rather than questioning my future, I feel grounded in it.
Choosing Myself, Intentionally
When it comes to companionship, I feel content exactly where I am.
At this point in my life, I’m not searching for another relationship. I’m not waiting to be chosen. Instead, I’m choosing myself—fully and without hesitation. I want to be enough for myself, and finally, I am.
For the first time, my fulfillment doesn’t depend on partnership. It comes from self-trust, independence, and emotional autonomy.
I LOVE Being Single
Truthfully, I love being a single woman.
I value the power that comes with independence. I appreciate the control I have over my time, energy, and direction. Most importantly, I’ve realized that this sense of sovereignty is exactly what I’ve always wanted—to have and to hold.
Not because I’m closed off.
Not because I’m afraid.
But because I’m whole.
And that makes all the difference.
hehehehehe,
AMBER LINDSAY MORAN
