First and foremost, a lot—and I mean a lot—of you have been confused about my current marriage status. I understand why. At first, I didn’t communicate it clearly because I was in shock and unsure how to navigate so much change happening so quickly. That, for starters, is what’s different now.
I want to be very clear about one thing: change—especially in my life—is coming from a good place. It’s meant with positive intention and a healthy connotation, not a negative one.
Another very noticeable change is my physique. Honestly, I’m just as amazed and stunned by the drastic shift in my body type and size as many of you are. And yes—I will be sharing exactly what I did (and what I’m still doing) that allowed stubborn pounds to melt off in a matter of weeks. Stay tuned for that, because I know how many of you have been asking.
Then there’s the hair—HAHAHA. I had never ever dyed my hair before December 2nd, and I just went for it. I am sooooo in love with how much younger, lighter, and more youthful I feel. It truly wasn’t “in the cards” for me… like, ever. But here we are, and I couldn’t be happier.
And lastly, there are a lot of internal changes happening within me—things I’m finally ready to release, even though they’re not as visible as the others.
One of the biggest is my self-confidence. It was depleted for a long time—long before my marriage—and now it’s slowly being rebuilt, one day at a time. I can receive the sweetest, most genuine, uplifting compliments about my personality, humor, or beauty… but if I don’t believe them, they don’t fully land. You know? And I want to receive more. I deserve to accept those words, believe them, and live a more authentic life because of it.
Another area I’m working on is time management. I’ve been unorganized, lost, and inconsistent in my roles as a friend, a family member, and a woman.
So this year is different.
I’m choosing to be someone who is intentional with her time and energy—even more than I once believed I already was. This season is about alignment, clarity, and becoming the woman I know I’m meant to be.